There’s nothing like a new relationship to make theholidayseason feel extra merry and bright.Cuddlesby the fireside? Check. Swapping nostalgic stories of festive seasons gone by? So sweet. Decorating the tree together for the very first time? Magic.

Of course, sky-high fantasies of the holiday season can sometimes lead to letdowns. And guessing at your partner’s unspoken expectations can jangle your nerves.

So, how can you make the first holiday season with your newflamefeel special without thestress? We’ve got you, boo. Here’s how to make the first Christmas with your boyfriend (or any partner!) unforgettable.

How can I celebrate Christmas with my partner?

There are many ways to spend the holiday with yourpartnerfor the first time.

Here are a few tips to avoid unnecessaryconflict:

And speaking of new traditions, here are a few fun holiday activities to try on your first Christmas together as a couple.

What should I get my partner for our first Christmas together?

Picking the right Christmas gift for your first holiday together can feel like a lot of pressure. Maybe you’re wondering how to strike the perfect balance between sentimental and lighthearted. Or perhaps the biggest question is how much to spend.

Here’s our best advice: Communicate. Be open and honest about yourbudget. Set a mutual spending limit. Once that’s done, you’re able to dive into the fun part of factoring in your partner’s interests andlove language(do they melt over physical gifts, or might they prefer an experience together?).

Depending on the expectations you’ve set, consider gift ideas from one or more of these categories:

Tips on spending first Christmas with partner’s family

Spending your first holiday with a new family can be daunting. What will they think of you? What will you think ofthem?

Some tips on handling the first holiday with your partner’s fam:

Celebrating your first Christmas (or any holiday!) with your boyfriend or girlfriend can be fraught with expectations.

Cheesy as it sounds, the best gift you can give yourself and your love is the gift ofclear communication. Being open about what you want and need during the holiday can prevent unnecessary stress.

Beyond that, have fun! Fromvolunteeringtogether to sneakingsmoochesunder the mistletoe, there are so many ways to make your first Christmas as a couple memorable and magical.